Monday, December 8, 2014

#NATIVE AMERICAN #CHRISTMAS

By Mary Adair


The stories I am writing for the Passion’s Series take place in the 1700s and my characters are Cherokee. While researching for my Native American novels I came across some amazing information about Native American celebrations. Before the white man came to their land they had no knowledge of Christian teachings. As the missionaries introduced them to Christian traditions, the Native Americans found that the story of Christmas and Christ’s birth sounded similar to some of their own tribal prophecies and considered the familiarity of the message of Jesus with their own truths handed down by their ancestors.

Many Native Americans in North America did observe a celebration near Christmas time that we call the Winter Solstice. The Winter Solstice is the longest night of the year and falls on December 21-22. It was celebrated in the Americas long before European influence arrived. Different Native American tribes associate different beliefs and rituals with it.

For example, the Hopi tribal celebrations are meant to give aid and direction to the sun which is ready to return and give strength to new life. Their ceremony is called Soyal and lasts for 20 days. During this time there is prayer stick making, purification and other rituals. Soyal is concluded with a rabbit hunt, a great feast, and many blessings.

Hopi Rabbit Hunt

There is a Native American story of a brave named Handsome Fellow. He could be called a Native American Santa. He is a handsome brave who wears white buckskins and brings gifts to Indian children. Other gift bringers come at different times of the year, often in the summertime. What intrigues me the most about the Native American culture is their love for giving. The gift bringing and giving element is always a part of the American Indian culture, whatever the occasion is for a gathering.

I was struck by the words of Looks for Buffalo, an Oglala Sioux spiritual leader, the full-blood Oglala grandson of Chief Red Cloud and White Cow Killer, and a Cheyenne Oglala leader. He explains the meaning of Christmas to the traditional Indian people of the Americas. The following words are his own words:

Painting of Sioux titled
Inspiration For The Spirit
"Traditional American Indians are raised to respect the Christian Star and the birth of the first Indian Spiritual Leader. He was a Star Person and Avatar. His name was Jesus. He was a Hebrew, a Red Man. He received his education from the wilderness. John the Baptist, Moses, and other excellent teachers that came before Jesus provided an educational foundation with the Holistic Method."

"Everyday is our Christmas. Every meal is our Christmas. At every meal we take a little portion of the food we are eating, and we offer it to the spirit world on behalf of the four legged, and the winged, and the two legged. We pray—not the way most Christians pray—but we thank the Grandfathers, the Spirit, and the Guardian Angel."

"The Indian Culture is actually grounded in the traditions of a Roving Angel. The life-ways of Roving Angels are actually the way Indian People live. They hold out their hands and help the sick and the needy. They feed and clothe the poor. We have high respect for the avatar because we believe that it is in giving that we receive."

"We are taught as Traditional children that we have abundance. The Creator has given us everything: the water, the air we breathe, the earth as our flesh, and our energy force: our heart. We are thankful every day. We pray early in the morning, before sunrise, to the morning star, and the evening star. We pray for our relatives who are in the universe that someday they will come. We also pray that the Great Spirit's son will live again."

"To the Indian People Christmas is every day and they don't believe in taking without asking. Herbs are prayed over before being gathered by asking the plant for permission to take some cuttings. An offer of tobacco is made to the plant in gratitude. We do not pull the herb out by its roots, but cut the plant even with the surface of the earth, so that another generation will be born its place."

"It is really important that these ways never be lost. And to this day we feed the elders, we feed the family on Christmas day, we honor Saint Nicholas. We explain to the little children that to receive a gift is to enjoy it, and when the enjoyment is gone, they are to pass it on to another child, so that they, too, can enjoy it. If a child gets a doll, that doll will change hands about eight times in a year, from one child to another."

"Every day is Christmas in Indian Country. Daily living is centered around the spirit of giving and walking the Red Road. Walking the Red Road means making everything you do a spiritual act. If your neighbor, John Running Deer, needs a potato masher; and you have one that you are not using, you offer him yours in the spirit of giving. It doesn't matter if it is Christmas or not."

"If neighbors or strangers stop over to visit at your house, we offer them dinner. We bring out the T-Bone steak, not the cabbage. If we don't have enough, we send someone in the family out to get some more and mention nothing of the inconvenience to our guests. The more one gives, the more spiritual we become. The Christ Consciousness, the same spirit of giving that is present at Christmas, is present every day in Indian Country."

Looks For Buffalo resides on the Pine Ridge Reservation in South Dakota and can be contacted at (605)867-5762 or P.O. Box 150, Pine Ridge, SD 57770. He is a contributor to www.ewebtribe.com.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas, filled with many blessings and lots of giving.

Photos from Google Commons. 
   

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Holiday Stress-Relief! #Prizes #Books #Secrets @JacquieRogers @AnnWCharles


Website | Pickle Barrel Gazette | Amazon

How to Ease the Strain on Your Pocketbook 
in the Holiday Season

It's here!  Yep, the hustle and bustle of the holiday season has descended upon us like fog on the lake.  Shuck off your shopping boots and plop yourself in front of your computer, because there's nothing to ease your stress like a little fun.  Free stuff doesn't hurt, either.

I nearly forgot about my blog day because I've been sucked into participating or organizing a bazillion Facebook parties, so I'm going to tell you about two of them.  

The first starts today.  You can win gift cards, free books, and some fun swag.  It's the Prairie Rose Publications Christmas Fandango!


Please join Livia Washburn Reasoner, Cheryl Pierson, Kathleen Rice Adams, me, and a bunch more authors December 4th and 6th (not the 5th).  We'll be talking about our holiday plans, our new books, and maybe even throw in a nekkid man-chest or three.  You never know what's gonna happen at these things.  Be ready to win prizes and ask questions or even poke a little fun at these talented authors.


The next event is Ann and Jacquie's Happy Holiday Fiesta - Take Two.  This event is also two separate days--Thursday, December 11th and Saturday, December 13th.  Ann Charles and I are hosting this one and the guest list is secret!!!  But lemme tell you, we'll have the most unique prizes ever. ☺  Join both days - Thursday and Saturday.  You won't wanna miss this awesome party.

Happy Holidays!

How the Texan Stole Christmas
a short story  by Jacquie Rogers in

Excerpt

Winnie found the whole situation awkward. She had to hang on to the rope with one hand, the strap of the bag of toys with the other, and hold up her skirt, too. Only problem was, she didn’t have three hands. The men had heavier loads but then they didn’t have skirts to hold up.

Tucker darted back and forth, as dogs do, but even he slid and fell a few times. Winnie slipped a time or two before she figured out how to keep herself upright, hold the toys, and preserve some modicum of modesty. Judd grunted softly every once in awhile, especially when the steep street inclined even more, and Tucker dashed between them, nearly upending Judd, who shooed him away.

Lulu glanced over her shoulder at Winnie. “Isn’t this a beautiful day? It’s cold, but the sun is shining and the air is clear. Last night’s fireplace smoke has blown away. I love days like this.”

Winnie nodded. “Yes, it’s a very nice day—would be even better if I were bundled up by the stove reading the latest Clara Vance novel.”

“What about you, Mr. Shaw?” Lulu asked.

“Judd.”

“What?”

Web laughed. “He said he wants to be called by his first name. He just don’t use a lot of words sayin’ it.” Lulu slipped and Web caught her before she fell. Winnie stopped while the two ahead got set to rights, Judd beside her. She felt a lot warmer when he was near and since she’d been married before, she knew exactly why. To cover her embarrassment, she adjusted her pack.

In an instant, her feet went out from under her and she knocked Judd off balance, too. She landed on her back, the cold hard ice knocking the wind out of her. Judd fell on top of her with his face buried in her bosom. She couldn’t speak for lack of air and she couldn’t move because he pinned her down.

He lifted his head after a moment. “I’m, uh, sorry.”

Winnie wasn’t sorry at all. No man had had his face on her bosom for a long time, and if she had to choose one to be there, Judd’s would be it.
♥ ♥ ♥
Wild Texas Christmas

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Tuesday, December 2, 2014

ANTICIPATION IS THE BEST PART OF CHRISTMAS

By Caroline Clemmons

It’s here, it’s here, it’s here! December is my favorite time of year. I love the anticipation that leads up to Christmas. Sadly, once the day is finally here, I feel let down. No more anticipation. The tree looks lonely without gifts underneath. Yes, I know it's supposed to be about the "reason for the season" but I can't help thinking of it as a dual holiday. It is a high holy celebration. At the same time, it's a time to celebrate those people in our lives for whom we are thankful.

Today is another story. We have over three weeks of excitement, choosing the perfect gift for everyone. At least, I search for just the right thing for each person.

Last year I made some big mistakes. For instance: I gave a teapot to a one of my critique partners who, as it turns out, hates tea. No wonder she always orders water when we dine out. And I gave Hero a dandy set of fishing pliers that turned out to be for deep sea fishing and he only does fresh water smaller fish. My bad. This year, I aim for better results.



We plan a pretty quiet Christmas at our house this year with only us four. On Christmas Eve, we'll open gifts. Santa still fills our stockings overnight for opening Christmas morning. The custom accelerated years ago when Darling Daughter 2 learned just who filled the stockings.

She was ten going on thirty-five and said, “So let me get this straight. You always knew what you were getting in your stocking?”

“That’s right.” I agreed.

She said, “Well, that’s not fair.”

The next year, my stocking included a set of teapot-shaped holders for used tea bags. She had purchased them at a garage sale in summer and saved them secretly all those months. (I love cups of hot tea and use tea bags.) Since then, she has always wrapped and slipped a gift into my stocking, and the gifts are always special. She still starts shopping in summer for perfect gifts.

Darling Daughter 1 and Hero are more last-minute shoppers, but are gradually shopping earlier and earlier each year. I think both have already completed their gift buying. Darling Daughter 1 has made several of the gifts she gives.

Pretty soon, the other family members followed suit. Now, we add a present to each person’s stocking. We’re big on traditions, so I suppose we’ll continue the stockings as long as Hero and I live. After that, the custom is up to Darling Daughters 1 and 2.  In the meantime, I love the practice.


If possible, we go to Christmas Eve services. By that I mean if we’re not sick and the weather permits. We are all highly allergic and fall is a bad, bad time for our respiratory systems.  If we already have infected sinuses and/or have bronchitis or pneumonia, going into a very crowded sanctuary filled with people wearing perfume of every kind is hard. I remember one Christmas Eve when I had to help serve communion and my eyes were watering so that I’m sure everyone thought I was crying. Honestly, I couldn't stop the tears pouring down my cheeks as if I were weeping heavily. I received some strange looks at my inappropriate behavior. But, hey, it’s church so they have to forgive me, right?

Another tradition we observe is helping those less fortunate. They need help all year, but by this time, resources of worthy charities are down to the wire. We choose wisely from those organizations who funnel at least 90% of donations to helping those in need. Some organizations we support are St. Jude's Children's Hospital, Heifer Project, Salvation Army, and Lions International.



If you’re in the market for something to read, I have a perfect suggestion to get you in the mood for Christmas, STONE MOUNTAIN CHRISTMAS. That’s what the heroine of the story wants for the whole town, and she launches a plan to return the Christmas spirit to Radford Falls, Texas. Helping her is handsome hero Eduardo Montoya, cousin of the heroine of BRAZOS BRIDE. 

Here are the buy links for STONE MOUNTAIN CHRISTMAS:



So, what are you planning? Going out of town, a quiet day at home, hordes of relatives pouring in? Whatever it is, I hope the day is exactly what you wish.


Caroline


Marry Christmas to all!

Sunday, November 30, 2014

A Gift From Me to You by Kimmie Easley

I'm sure you've heard this a hundred times ... but I'm going to say it anyway.

Where has the year gone? 

Where has the Year Gone?I can't believe December starts tomorrow, leaving 2014 in the blink of an eye.

We've all survived Thanksgiving and the holiday bustle is in full swing. What do you do to relax? Where do you find your 'me' time? A good bottle of wine? A steamy read? 

Taking time for yourself is


How about a FREE BOOK? A little gift from me to you, to say Happy Holidays. 
(Link at the bottom)

freebook

You've been running around cooking, washing dishes, cleaning, and hosting the ultimate family feast. OK, even if you didn't, you still deserve to put your feet up for an hour or two and pamper yourself with a hot groundskeeper nestled in the Smokey Mountains. 

 Tinsel, Tidings, and Temptations on KINDLE


(BLURB) Naomi Compton has spent her life making everyone else happy, only to drive her husband into the arms of his busty, blonde assistant. Needing to get out of town for the holidays, she rents a luxury cabin nestled in the Smokey Mountains that just so happens to come with it's own hunky groundskeeper, Henner Willliams. He's more than happy to show Naomi what she's been missing out all these years. Not to mention how she can do it for herself when she gets back home. 

WARNING: Adult content (18+) 

Tinsel, Tidings, and Temptations on KINDLE. 

Happy reading, and Happy Holidays! 
Kimmie


Friday, November 28, 2014

Gluten-Free Butternut Squash Bread Recipe for the Holidays


This recipe is made with our homegrown butternut squash, but you can buy some in the fresh produce section of your grocery store or from a farmer’s market. Canned pumpkin may be substituted but the consistency will be a little different, so adjust your flour accordingly and check to be certain the pumpkin is gluten free. I use Jules Gluten free flour (ordered from the Jules website) and it’s fabulous, but there are other gluten-free flours. (***Image of bread and squash from our garden by my talented daughter Elise)
The first step in the process is to cut one large or several smaller butternut squash in half and spoon out the seeds. Place the halves in a rectangular glass or metal baking pan with the open sides facing up and drizzle them with olive oil. Bake uncovered in a 350 degree oven until well done, approximately 45-60 minutes. The time all depends on the size of the squash. Remove from oven to cool. You can stop right now, sprinkle the halves with salt, add some butter or pure maple syrup, and eat them as they are. But for the purposes of the bread, we forge ahead. I always bake extra. (***Image of the bread baking by Elise)
Dry Ingredients: Mix together: 1 2/3  cups Gluten Free flour (I use Jules) ¼ tsp. gluten-free baking soda (I used Bob’s Red Mill) 1 tsp. gluten-free baking powder (I used Rumford) ¾ tsp. salt, ½ tsp. cinnamon, ¼ tsp. cloves (I use McCormick spices which are gluten-free). The amount of flour may vary with the consistency of your squash so you may need a little more or less. A whisk does a good job of mixing these together.
Moist Ingredients: Whisk together: ½ cup shortening or oil (I used Smart Balance Omega), 1 cup granulated sugar, 2 large eggs, 1 cup of mashed up squash, ¼ cup dark molasses (I used Brer Rabbit Full Flavor but have used other brands). The molasses is my secret ingredient. If you use the same cup you measure the oil in for the molasses, it will slide right out. Another tip, blend your moist ingredients in a bowl large enough to accommodate the dry because they’re going in next.
Stir the dry ingredients into the wet mixture until well blended, never the other way around. I use a large whisk to blend  them. Yes, the same whisk used above. Pour the mixture into a greased bread pan and bake at 350 for one hour or until a sharp knife comes out clean. This recipe makes one large loaf, but I always double it and make three medium loaves. This is a delicious, moist bread reminiscent of gingerbread, on the dense side, but gluten-free bread is denser. It also freezes well. Everyone in the family loves it, even those who can eat gluten. I’m gluten intolerant, as are my two young nieces and my sister, so we are always seeking good gluten-free options. I gave the brand names because some companies are far more conscientious than others about avoiding cross contamination, and anyone with Celiac or gluten intolerance knows what a problem that is, so the chatter is frequently about which brands are ‘safe.’ You can use any brands that are approved for this recipe. 
And Happy Holidays to you all.

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

How Do Writers Show Body Language by Vonnie Davis

Writers have various ways of expressing emotion. I mostly use dialogue. Maybe because I like to talk, my characters talk a lot too. But, as writers, we also show emotions through body language. We all know hands on hips indicates a bad mood or anger. Think back to when your children were small. What things did they do to indicate they were fibbing or getting ready to plead for something they knew they shouldn't have?

ANGER?

Anger is one expression of fight-or-flight mode. It's an automatic, instinctive reaction to a threat. In many cases, there is an underlying fear of being harmed. Thanks to autonomic nervous system arousal, the heart rate increases, pupils dilate, and the face may flush. I have trouble remembering to use all these. I often add them on my second or third round of edits. Other signs of anger are:
  • Balling the fists
  • Crossing the arms tightly
  • Clenching the fists once arms are crossed
  • Tight-lipped smile
  • Clenched teeth
  • Shaking a finger like a club.
  • Stabbing or jabbing a finger at someone
ATTRACTION:
  • Pupils dilate
  • Women will cross and uncross legs to draw attention to them
  • Mirroring (usually unconsciously) mimicking the other person's body language
CLOSED TO CONVERSATION:
  • Keeping the hands in the pockets (esp. men)
  • Arms and legs crossed
  • Sitting back
  • Folding the hands together on a table (creates a barrier)
  • The "figure-four" leg cross (setting the ankle of one leg on the knee of the other) and then grabbing the lower half of the top leg with both hands.
OPENESS AND HONESTY:
  • Exposure of the palms
  • Arms and legs unfolded
  • Leaning forward
SUBMISSIVE SIGNALS:
  • Smiling, which is why some people smile when they're upset or afraid
  • Slumping the shoulders
  • Do anything to appear smaller
DISTRESS:
  • Men in particular have a tendency to stroke or rub the nape of the neck when they're upset. It acts as a self-soothing gesture to deal with a "pain in the neck."
  • Crossed arms, which act like a protective barrier.
  • Self-hugger--arms are crossed, hands gripping upper arms
  • Clutching a purse, briefcase or bag with both arms
  • Adjusting cuffs or cuff-links
  • Folding the hands together in front of the crotch (men)
LYING:
  • Lying causes a subtle tingling in the face and neck, so the gesture below are attempts to eliminate that feeling.
  • Covering the mouth--can be like a shh gesture, or they may cover the mouth completely, perhaps by coughing. My ex used to yawn. Didn't take me long to figure that tell out.
  • Touching or rubbing the nose or just below the nose, often a quick, small gesture...not a scratch.
  • Rubbing the eyes...usually the men.
  • Scratching the neck with the index finger
SUPERIORITY, CONFIDENCE, POWER, DOMINANCE:
  • Steepling of the fingers
  • Folding the hands behind the back
  • Thumbs sticking out from pockets when hands are in pockets...can be front or back pockets
  • Hands on hips
  • Straddling a chair
  • Hands folded behind the head while sitting up (in men; in women, this thrusts the breasts out and becomes sexual)
Now, as you read body language in books, you'll have a better feel for the language being conveyed. You'll be drawn more into the action.

For more about Vonnie Davis, she blogs at www.vonniedavis.blogspot.com
 
 
HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!


Monday, November 24, 2014

THE FLAWED HERO AND WHY WE LOVE HIM



We women are suckers for the wounded hero. It's in our nature to believe we can "fix" the brooding hero and live happily ever after. This idea is nothing new. Beauty and the Beast is a very old French fairy tale with a hero with a physical flaw and the mother of all attitude problems.  Enter Belle. A little love, patience and persistence and we have a transformed prince.

I enjoy writing characters who have quirks and flaws. They are so much more interesting than the perfect hero who always has the answer and never takes a wrong step. Can you imagine James Bond being attracted to plain little Jane Eyre? Mr. Rochester tried harder. Well, he did lie and manipulate, but it was all for love. She managed to change him for the better. Wait, that's Beauty and the Beast again.

The perfect hero would be difficult to live with. St. George slayed the dragon and saved the girl. Then what? Did he go out dragon hunting for the rest of his life or settle down and raise little princes? Imagine him sitting around polishing his armor and reminiscing about the good old days. The alpha male needs constant action.

As a writer, we want interesting characters with problems we can relate to. The hero's journey is much more interesting when life isn't simple or easy. Maybe it's because, in reality, we have so many wounded warriors returning home. We love these men and women who did their job to protect us and paid the price. They return with baggage we all want them to have a happily ever after.