Ah, Valentine’s Day. The day we show our love with chocolate, flowers, dinners out, or merely a greeting card.
Thinking about Valentine’s Day made me
think of something else. No, not about how chocolate is 50% off the day after
Valentine’s Day. I thought about the way romance has changed since I was young
My college roommate was a very interesting person, artistic, creative, and funny. And our coed dorm (different floors with opposite sex curfews) was chock full of handsome young men. One particular guy caught her eye and she decided to take a chance. She began writing Secret Admirer notes. Each note had a small clue. I delivered some of them myself. I must have been spotted because young Prince Charming and his roommate started watching us in the dining hall. (One of the clues was about a food she liked to eat.) When she did deliver the note telling him who she was, alas, Prince Charming turned out to be a frog. He told her in person, at least, but he told her he wasn’t interested. She was mortified and broken hearted, but I admired her chutzpah.
Think about that now. First of all, who hand writes letters today? But picture it. Someone begins receiving cryptic, chatty notes from an unknown person. They continue and her trepidation grows. She finally calls the police to report that she has a stalker. Fingerprints are lifted from the notes. Stakeouts are organized to watch the house. Arrests are made. Tsk, tsk, tsk. What a sad ending to unrequited love.
I know a couple who are very much in love. But Cupid can be tricky. The man loves to say that he had to convince his now wife because she wasn’t interested at first. He followed her around, chattering away. She said no, but he persisted. Finally she agreed to go out with him. Now they walk side by side, hand in hand. They are still absolutely besotted with each other to this day and they have two grown children.
Today a woman would report that man for harassing
her. Reports would be taken. Protection orders would be instigated. Arrests
would be made. Another potential for romance, foiled.
My tongue in cheek blog isn’t minimizing real stalking
or sexual harassment. I’m just reflecting on our changing society. True
stalking and harassing shouldn’t be tolerated
by law enforcement or by anyone for that matter.
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