My grandfather would say that and chuckle. I wondered if he was remembering the day he realized he was in love with my grandmother, a woman he'd known since they were children.
They had a long and happy life together. After my grandmother passed, my grandfather lived almost 20 more years. He missed her every day.
Love is such a complex emotion, and it's the great equalizer because it's the one thing we all seek whether we realize it or not.
Men, if you've ever wondered what women want, i.e., so they will want you—love you—here are a few tips for you.
How to Make a Woman Love You
The following actions are what a woman looks for in a man. Give a woman these 11 things, and that's the best shot at getting her to give you her love.1. R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Give her Respect
2. Unconditional Love.
3. Listen to her.
4. Don't be a jerk
5. Don't take her for granted.
6. Be a man not her child.
7. Be loyal and faithful.
8. Pay attention to what she says and what she doesn't say but exhibits by actions and moods.
9. Be her partner, not her parent or boss.
10. Be yourself and don't put on a fake persona.
11. Learn her sexual rhythm because a woman's sexuality is not like a man's.
I never will forget meeting a French Canadian woman at a workshop who talked about teaching her teen boys how to make love to a woman. "It's like eating a truffle. You go slow, relishing and savoring every bit and don't gobble." She also talked about her high school sons having girlfriends sleeping over. That was a lot to take in from my upbringing, but you know if more men knew these rules, there may be more happy folks- Great post!
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