I can’t believe it is already June. I would love for
just once to write this blog without saying my life has been hectic. Back in
the office two days a week with special projects, and DFW Fiberfest are all
hitting at the same time.
True to nature, I requested a double booth this year
at Fiberfest, because preparing for a single booth wasn’t stressful enough last
year. I have been busy sewing up my Harris Tweed and knitting project bags just
like I waited until the last minute to prep (because I did).
Now for my blog:
When I think of June, I think of June Brides, dressed
in white, carrying floral bouquets, and the happy couple eating a beautiful
cake at the end.
Today, on a radio talk show, they were talking about the
weird history of a certain wedding tradition and it got me thinking…what else
did I not know…
Here are a few wedding traditions and their histories
from Minted.com. Am I the only one who didn’t know this?
1. “SOMETHING
OLD, SOMETHING NEW, SOMETHING BORROWED, SOMETHING BLUE.”
From an Old English rhyme, this saying refers to the
four good-luck objects a bride should have on her wedding day.
“something old” represents the couples’ past lives.
“something new” symbolizes their happy future.
“something borrowed” means incorporating an item
belonging to someone who is happily married, hoping some of their good fortune
rubs off.
“Something blue” represents fidelity and love.
2. BRIDAL
BOUQUET
The bouquet that a bride carries today is different
for every bride, and while traditional bouquets are floral, I once saw one that
was creatively made from antique broaches.
Back in ancient Greece and Rome, it was all about
herbs. During that time, it was en vogue to hold aromatic bouquets of garlic,
dill, and other herbs and spices to ward off evil spirits. Carrying a favorite
floral variety is a tradition that became popular in 1840, when Queen Victoria
married Prince Albert and carried a bouquet of snowdrops, his favorite flower.
*The radio station I mentioned earlier stated the
reason for the bouquet was because in old days, people didn’t take baths but once
a year, usually in June, and carried flowers to mask the smell. 😉
3. TRADIONS FOR REPELLING EVIL SPIRITS
In Roman times, matching outfits meant good luck and
were a common wedding tradition. Ancient Romans believed evil spirits would
attend the wedding in an attempt to curse the bride and groom. To confuse the
spirits, bridesmaids acted as decoys and dressed identically to the bride with
the idea the spirits would be confused, leading them to leave the couple to
wed.
During the same time period, the bride would walk down
the aisle wearing a veil over her face to disguise herself from any evil
spirits looking to ruin her wedding day.
4. WEARING YOUR
RING ON THE “RING FINGER”
Also traced back to the Romans, the fourth finger on
the left hand was believed to be connected directly to the heart by a vein
called “the vein of love.”
5. WEDDING INVITATIONS
In olden times, it was only England’s aristocracy who used
wedding invitations. The noble class would commission monks, skilled in
calligraphy, to hand-write the announcements. The invitations would often
depict the family crest or coat of arms and would be closed with a wax seal.
The tradition of double envelopes where the wedding
invitation is enclosed in both an inner envelope and an outer envelope also originates
from this practice. The courier’s journey might damage the outer envelope, so
upon delivery, the outer envelope would be removed and the sealed inner
envelope, with the invitation inside, would be presented to the invited guest.
Higher-quality printing became possible with the
invention of the metal-plate engraving printing press in 1642, which allowed
artists to engrave the invitations using an inked metal plate in reverse that
was stamped onto paper. Since engraved invitations needed time to dry, tissue
paper would be placed on top to prevent ink smudges. This tradition remains to
this day.
We request the honour of your presence. Have you ever
received a wedding invitation with “honour” spelled out with the British-style “u”?
This formal spelling style lets guests know that the wedding ceremony will be
held in a place of worship, like a church.
6. “GIVING” THE BRIDE AWAY
This wedding ceremony tradition dates back to a time
of arranged marriages, where the “giving away” of the bride represented a
transfer of ownership. Back then, young women were used as collateral and were
given away in exchange for a “bride price” or dowry.
7. TYING THE
KNOT
In Celtic and Hindu weddings, the bride’s and groom’s
hands are joined and tied together to symbolize the couple’s commitment to each
other and their new bond as a married couple. The Celtic ceremony ritual is
called handfasting, while in Hindu weddings, the ceremony is called the
hastmelap.
8. TOSSING RICE AT THE END OF THE CEREMONY
Back in the day, marriage meant expansion, from
starting a family to increasing one’s assets. Rice symbolized both fertility
and prosperity, and tossing it at newlyweds at the conclusion of the wedding
ceremony conveyed best wishes and good luck—for babies, bountiful harvests, and
everything in between. Nowadays, the wedding tradition of tossing things on the
couple takes many forms, from dried lavender buds and blowing bubbles to
biodegradable confetti.
9. THE WEDDING CAKE
The tradition of a wedding cake also comes from
ancient Rome, where guests broke a loaf of bread over the bride’s head to
symbolize fertility. The newlyweds would share a few bites while guests would
scoop up the leftover crumbs for good luck. In medieval England, the bride and
groom had to try to kiss over a pile of stacked spiced buns, scones, and
cookies—a precursor to the tiered wedding cakes of today—supposedly ensuring a
prosperous future if they were able to successfully smooch without toppling the
whole thing over.
Saving the top tier of the cake
Traditionally, the top tier of the wedding cake was
saved and kept frozen to be enjoyed by the wedding couple once again at their
future child’s christening. Back in the olden days, many people assumed the
couple would have a baby within a year, so by preserving the wedding cake, they
wouldn’t have to buy another dessert to celebrate the pregnancy or birth.
10. CANDY
WEDDING FAVORS
Like many Western wedding traditions, candy wedding
favors also date back in history to the European aristocracy. In the 16th
century, as a show of wealth, couples gave guests a bomboniere, which was a
small trinket box made of crystal, porcelain, and precious stones that was
filled with candy or sugar cubes. Sugar was an expensive delicacy during this
time period. As sugar became more affordable, bombonieres were succeeded by
sugar-coated almonds. The now-traditional wedding favor of five Jordan almonds
symbolizes five wishes for the newlyweds of health, wealth, happiness,
fertility, and longevity.
There you have it. I knew a couple of these, but I am skeptical
about a few of these. At least next time you are sitting teary eyed at a
wedding, you have something else to think about.