By Bea Tifton
Hello, my name is Bea Tifton, and I
am a procrastinator. But we’ll get to that later.
Procrastination is a big problem with
some people. They put off things that are absolutely necessary for life or
adulting in general. Why? I read several articles on the Internet, so now I’m a
certified expert. Just kidding. But they basically said the same things.
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1. Feeling overwhelmed. Have you ever
felt so overwhelmed that you didn’t know where to start? I just try to think of
that saying, and the article even cites it, “How do you eat an elephant? One
bite at a time.” (I’m a vegetarian. No elephants were harmed in the writing of
this blog post.) Break things into smaller tasks and give deadlines for each.
2. Bad timing. Boy, is this a big one
for me. I have two autoimmune diseases and a heart problem, so there are times
when just getting the trash and the recycling out that week are major
accomplishments. (No, really. I text my mother and my best friend to brag about
it.) I’ve learned to do what I can at my peak times, late afternoon to evening,
and to work more on my good days. It takes planning, but I give myself
permission to take care of my health and my body on my bad days, too. The experts suggest you choose your best
times and do the task then.
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3. Hating the task. Yes, even though I
love cleaning out the litter boxes and mopping up the occasional accident from
the “I’m not going out there to poop today. Have you seen how hard it’s
raining?” syndrome, I must admit I would love to put it off. One solution is to
reward yourself when you’ve finished your onerous to do list.
4. Lacking focus. This one would be so easy for
me. I’ve had to retire from education much earlier than planned, and it would
be so easy to fall into the trap of wandering around, watching Brit Box and
reading all day. That’s what some people think I do, I‘m sure. But there’s that
one little snafu. Trying to keep the lights on and the fridge full takes income.
I’ve read that setting goals is the key.
I have to do so myself. I even put them on my calendar as little reminders so
the notifications pop up, keeping me accountable.
5. Being afraid of failure. This one is the
reason I always heard for procrastination. I am a type A personality and a
perfectionist, despite the modifications I’ve had to make to my lifestyle. If I
don’t turn it in, it’s not going to be rejected. That’s when I have to employ
the, “What’s the worst that could happen” scenario. As a writer, I can come up
with some very entertaining ones, but then I get down to a more mundane reality
and realize that it’s not that big a deal, but that not turning something in or
completing something around the house would make me feel far worse.
Does knowing why I’m doing something
make it all better? Why, of course it does. In a perfect world. No, of course
not, but it does make my overly analytical mind think, “Okay, this is why I’m
doing this. Now STOP IT!” I can give myself that mental kick.
What about you?
Do you ever procrastinate? What helps you?
Sources Cited:
Frankton, James. “The 4 Main Causes
of Procrastination Revealed.” Motivation Grid, June 29, 2014.
White, Doug and Polly. “4 Reasons
people Procrastinate and a Cure of Each One.” Entrepreneur,
May 16, 2017.
Great post! I love it! And yes, I am a big procrastinator!!!
ReplyDeleteYou made very helpful points and you wrote this really well, so a big high five from me.
Forgot to add, or ask, what else do you write, Bea? You have so much talent.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the nice things you wrote, Beth. I am currently working on a cozy mystery called A Compact Death. I plan to have a website up and running this week where I'll share all the details, but I already have a Facebook page.
DeleteThat sounds really good, Bea!
DeleteI would love to procrastinate but I run out of time and have to put it off til the next day, week, or month...😜 So does that make me a procrastinating procrastinator?
ReplyDeleteI think that makes you a champion procrastinator! Lol.
DeleteFun post, Bea! I'm one of the strange people that likes to get things done ahead of time. I was always one lesson ahead of everyone in school, 15-30 minutes early for appointments. Which can be as bad. When I'm late or miss deadlines it throws me completely off. Though lately I've been having trouble getting my blog posts done for groups blogs and it weighs on me.
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