Smart Girls Read Romance -- so do the bestselling and award-winning Authors who write this blog.
Join them as they dish about Books, Romance, Love, and Life.






Sunday, February 16, 2025

Post Valentine Giveaway by Joan Reeves

I'm being held hostage by that ogre named Allergies. It started when I visited my brother in Louisiana at the farm.

All of the trees, weeds, shrubs, and vines that I'm not used to were dripping pollen out of season. Ah choo!

Even though I haven't felt that well, I've been working intensively on new book covers, new file format for my existing ebooks, and working on a new release.

When I say working, I literally mean 12 hours a day for the last week. I crashed last night, decided to battle the ogre, took 2 Zyrtec (as recommended by my doctor), and went to bed.

Even though I woke at 4:30 this morning, I felt better. (Allergy meds have that weird effect on me—knock me out then make me awake at a weird hour.) Now after 2 cups of coffee and a cup of tea, I have enough energy to visit with you.

CRAZY WEATHER

I don't know about where you are, but we're having some weird weather here on the Gulf Coast of Texas. Yesterday, it was 76. Today it's 40 and dropping, but the sun is shining brightly. I understand we're supposed to have a low of 22 around mid-week.

I think everyone in the state is fearing another winter like we had in 2021. I'm so thankful we now have a generator. I just hope our water utility has a bunch of them.

BELATED VALENTINE GIFT

For Valentine's Day, I offered BLAME IT ON CHOCOLATE, a Valentine romance, free to my newsletter subscribers. 

Now, I'm inviting you to grab a free copy too—free on Amazon Kindle until 11:59pm PST tonight, Sunday, Feb. 16, 2025.

"A fresh, witty, delicious story. Just like an irresistible bar of chocolate, you'll finish it all at once." —Reader Review

HAPPY READING

I hope you'll enjoy this story. Times are tough, and many readers simply can't afford the luxury of books. That's why, this year, I'm offering one of my books for 99¢ each month. 

This month the book is Scents and Sensuality, a Love, Laughter, and Shenanigans Fake Boyfriend Romance that culminates on Valentine's Day.

If you'd like to know when a book is on sale or is free, sign up for I LOVE READING, my free newsletter.

Until next week, stay warm, stay away from pollen, read books, and enjoy life.


JOAN ONLINE




Thursday, February 13, 2025

Will You Be My Valentine? By Bea Tifton

 

Ah, Valentine’s Day. The air is scented with roses and chocolate is on the tip of many tongues.

I am not dating anyone right now, so the day is not filled with romance for me. Nor, however, is it filled with angst. It’s just another day, more or less. I’m more excited about “Chocolate is 50% Off Day.”

Many women have begun celebrating “Galentine’s Day,” a day to celebrate with women friends. I like that idea. It’s fun and cheerful. I’ve never lamented the years I don’t have that special guy with whom to exchange soulful looks over candlelight. Really, it just doesn’t bother me; I’m too independent. But some women are really bummed out. And some women just want to celebrate friendship, which is wonderful.  I’m all for anything Girl Power.



When I was a teacher, Valentine’s Day meant tons of flowers, stuffed animals, and chocolate. I especially remember that brand of chocolate that had cute little decorated boxes shaped like hearts, but it contained so much filler that the chocolate tasted like wax. And I never quite knew what to do with the stuffed animals afterwards. I usually saved them for the rest of the year, and then quietly donated them to a charity thrift shop. The flowers were fun even though they didn’t last long. But I cherished every gift. They were, well, heartfelt. One year some workmen were repairing the school’s roof. As I trooped by with an armful of gifts and flowers, I heard one man say, “All the teachers are walking by with so much stuff!” He sounded quite impressed


I remember one year I had just started the “Will we or won’t we” phase of a relationship with a guy I really liked. I wasn’t sure what to do. I stood at the card section of the store just completely overthinking what to do. I finally settled on a comedic card saying, “I wasn’t sure what to get you this year. This is either a Valentine or it’s not, depending on what you did.” I sent it, but he didn’t send anything back. We never did start dating. Sigh.

This year, I’ll exchange Valentine’s with my parents and my close friends. My parents and I will probably even go out to lunch. Then that night while we stream movies, we’ll stuff our faces with candy. I know I have friends and family who love me all year. That’s good enough for me. But chocolate is always welcome.




How do you celebrate Valentine's Day? Leave a comment below. 


Photo Credits: Pexels.com
Jill Wellington "Heart Baked Cookies"
Andrea Piacquadio "Women Holding Wine Glasses" 
RDNE Stock Project "A Valentine's Gift on Wooden Table"
Alex Green "Woman in Red Long Sleeve Shirt"


Sunday, February 2, 2025

THE MONTH OF LOVE #99¢ SALE!

 By Caroline Clemmons


Welcome February, treated as the month of love. Actually, it’s only one of  eleven others that offer the same opportunity for love. At least, I hope love in your life is not restricted to February. <G>

Probably, we are each hoping for something special on Valentine’s Day. Do you prefer flowers, jewelry, candy, dining out, or all of those? Even a verbal wish and a hug can make my day. That’s not to say I’d turn down any of the aforementioned Valentine’s gifts.

Hero never forgets to do something special. Now that his Parkinson’s prevents him from driving, he calls on our youngest daughter to act as his personal shopper. Luckily for me, she does great work.

Ah, well, on to reminiscing. Do you remember the first Valentine candy you received from a guy? I do, as well as how surprised—make tha shocked—l was to find it in my school locker. I was in the seventh graden, and far from a femme fatale. His cubby was only a few down from mine. Of course, he was watching when I opened my door. I have no idea what I said, but it must have been acceptable because he stuck around for several years. I had thought the boy was my pal Margie’s boyfriend. So did Margie. Need I say she stopped being my buddy that day?

While I was a housewife, I was always a room mother. When our oldest daughter was in kindergarten, for her class Valentine’s party I made for myself a white double-knit pantsuit trimmed in red. Shudder. Good grief, seeing that photo now is embarrassing! At the time, I thought it was just right for Valentine’s Day. Times and tastes definitely change, don't they?

Our daughters are polar opposites. The oldest never met a stranger and loves talking to people. The youngest is extremely shy, but learned to hide it later. They do look like sisters and I sometimes made them matching dresses (for some reason that now escapes me). I knew our youngest daughter didn’t like her second grade teacher, who had been her sister’s teacher two years earlier. At the class party, the teacher gushed on and on about how much alike the girls were and how she enjoyed them. Maybe she knew I played bridge with the principal.

Memories of good times are fun to recapture. I hope you have good memories and are making new ones to savor later.

By the way, if you’re looking for tales of romance, adventure, and happily ever after, the first book of my Texas Hill Country Mail Order Brides series is what you need. Plus, it's on sale for only 99¢ on Amazon. GENTRY AND THE MAIL ORDER BRIDE can be found at this URL:’

https://www.amazon.com/Gentry-Texas-Country-Order-Brides-ebook/dp/B0B6YN6QHK



 Here's the blurb:

Sometimes the perfect match is the one you didn’t expect.

Nothing much riles Gentry McRae. He works hard on the ranch he co-owns with his best friend, and is content with his life. He’s proud of all they’ve accomplished in the ten years since the war. That is, until his partner dies and leaves a fourth of the ranch to his mail-order bride—and wills the bride to Gentry.

“Now just a doggone minute, I don’t plan to marry for years!”

But, a single woman can’t reside on a ranch where four men live without ruining her reputation. What’s a good man to do, except marry the woman when she arrives?

Heidi Roth has been spurned for being too plainspoken and too tall. In addition, her sister constantly makes fun of her for those reasons. That’s why—with many doubts—she’s willing to travel for months from Bavaria to Texas to marry a man who once lived in her town. When she arrives, she learns her prospective groom is dead, but left her a fourth of his share of a ranch. She has serious doubts, but agrees to wed Gentry to protect her reputation. From the next day, one event after the other happens. Is this the life she wants?

 

Happy Valentine’s Day.

 


 

Sunday, January 26, 2025

This Is The Skin Of A Reader, Bella by Laura Hunsaker

 With the Tik Tok ban, then it coming right back in less than 24 hours, I noticed that the algorithm changed. I love seeing book recs and book reviews on the socials, but one thing I don't like is when people bag on other readers for what they read. And for some reason the new algorithm feels I need to see readers bashing other readers for what they like.

I know that this blog is full of authors who write the spectrum from closed door to spicy, so I feel like we are all pretty respectful of each others' books and readers. Usually the people who mock readers aren't readers themselves. But every now and then, I see something online that disappoints me in the book community.

All the Fourth Wing, and ACOTAR hate is driving me bonkers. It wasn't my jam, but if someone is coming to reading through whatever trends on BookTok, that's a good thing. This is more than just someone saying they didn't like a book. It's very much, "Oh you only read smut, that's not a real book." Or "Fourth Wing isn't even smut, don't say you read smut when it's just Fourth Wing." See? There's no winning here.

Twilight.


It's easy to poke fun at, it's easy to bash. I am absolutely guilty of joking around with my daughter about Twilight. However. I feel like the difference is that I loved Twilight. Twilight is what got me back into reading, back in 2008. I had just had a baby and I hadn't read for pleasure in so long, that the hype got me. I tore through that series. Then I went to the library and found some Paranormal Romance that hooked me and the rest is history.

In my opinion, whatever gets people reading is a good thing. And I feel like we went through this with Fifty Shades of Grey back in the day. And I know we'll go through it again, but I would love to see readers supporting readers, rather than bashing them. And Romancelandia is usually really welcoming. I can't tell you how many times I've seen someone start something that's new to them, and suddenly everyone around is saying things like, "You are so lucky to read this for the first time!" Or "welcome, you're going to love it here." So you can see why I was so disappointed in what TikTok apparently feels I need to see; readers mocking what other readers love.

That's a no from me. So let's each rec our favorite series. Doesn't matter the genre. Share your favorite books with us! Mine would be the Ilona Andrews Hidden Legacy series. It's top tier and probably my most re-read. What's yours? 


Thursday, January 23, 2025

DO YOU MAKE RESOLUTIONS FOR THE NEW YEAR?

                                                     by Judy Ann Davis

I’m not a fan of making resolutions and putting pressure on my life or increasing stress. I do believe that we can make decisions or intentions for our betterment as we look to the future. Life itself, with all its quirks, is often pressure enough without strict guidelines, rules, or repetitive activities for successfully living each day.                                                            

Thus, I will strive to. . .

Live each day to the fullest and allow the activities of that day to take me on new, winding journeys I never expected. “Ninety-five percent of the people who died today had expected to live a lot longer.” 
--Albert M. Wells, Jr.

Be more patient with people, family, processes, my writing, distractions—even slow elevators. We must learn that, like the farmers, we can’t sow and reap the same day.

Exercise more, listen more, laugh more. . . and let the future come one day at a time, as it always does.

Enjoy my home to its fullest, despite the work, dust and menial chores that surround me which often gobble time set aside for writing. After all, home is where you hang your heart.

Dream . . . or rather allow myself the luxury to dream. Dreams are the heart of creativity. “The poorest of all men is not the man without a cent, but a man without a dream.”

Handle criticism graciously.  “If it’s untrue, disregard it. If it’s unfair, keep from irritation. If it’s ignorant, smile. If it’s justified, learn from it.” --Anonymous

Be grateful for the doors of opportunity. . .and for friends who oil the hinges. As writers, we need our family, our friends and other writers who understand the trials and toils of the writing process.

Help find and better define truth in the world. We have lost sight of the importance of truth and honesty in our lives. Our media and people today have failed to delineate the difference between fact versus opinion. “Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.”--Aldous Huxley

Understand  and accept that peace does not mean the same thing (or have the same definition) for all the people who inhabit our world. Therefore, as part of a U.S. military family, I will pray for a peace that will remove all our men and women from combat in foreign lands and bring them home to the safety of American soil. “God blesses those who work for peace, for they shall be called the children of God.”   Matthew 5:9

Reiterate my daily mantra in the New 2025 year to all who will listen:
                 “Never let anyone steal your  joy.”      

 

Happy New Year!


                                                 LINK to my AMAZON AUTHOR PAGE

   

Monday, January 20, 2025

The Trees Are Full of Ice by Liz Flaherty

I wrote most of this for a blog in January of 2021. There isn't ice in the trees today, although it was zero when I came to the office this morning. There is much about today that is cold. Bittersweet. Even though this blog is a memory, it's a reminder to me of how to go on from here. Wishing you diamond days. - Liz

The trees are full of ice today. The sun shines on them and they are just beautiful. It's as if they're covered with a multitude of diamonds. It's funny that the thing that draws our attention to the beauty is also the thing that destroys it, isn't it? Not funny so much as bittersweet. 


Along with the brilliant trees came an ear worm. "Some days are diamonds," John Denver sang, "some days are stones." Bittersweet again, the thoughts of an artist gone too soon, as well as the song itself. 

We've seen a lot of it in the past year. Lived a lot of it. I don't know about other writers, but it's made it harder to create a story. I'm not using Covid-19 when I write, and I catch myself thinking things like they can't go into a crowded restaurant or there can't be a girlfriends trip or even they wouldn't touch hands that soon. Where's the hand sanitizer and they hardly know each other. 

But there have been some good things, too. Some sweet moments among the bitter. I've been writing in sprints, which had been both successful and fun. I'm writing a new story, with people I'm having fun getting to know, in a subgenre I'm not completely comfortable with.

I'm finding during this up-and-down time that I have new resentments, new things creating changes I'm not sure I want. I read curmudgeonly posts on Facebook that both annoy me and...gulp...I can identify with, and I hear these words from the song: "More and more I can see there's a danger in becoming what I never thought I'd be..."

Oh. Okay. 


Bittersweet is beautiful. My grandmother kept it in a little copper vase that hung on the wall. It's also, according to some reports, toxic. So is giving in to the bitterness that comes visiting every day. But we can learn from it without giving in. We can use it without giving in. The days that seem to be stones from sunup to beyond sundown, what Anne Shirley called "Jonah days," exhaust us. And yet, this is how we do it, isn't it? One day at a time. One foot in front of the other. Without giving in. Watching for diamonds.



Thursday, January 16, 2025

Baby, It's Cold Outside by Joan Reeves

Of course it's cold outside—it's January. But that's not really what I'm talking about. 

I'm defending the song of the same name because it's rarely heard in today's world. Once, you'd hear it during the holidays until some people interpreted the song as a date-rape warning. That's all it took for radio stations to ban it.

The song, written by Frank Loesser and his wife, Lynn Garland, was first sung at their New York City home in 1944. They performed it as a humorous way to tell their guests that it was time to go home.

In 1949, the song was featured in the MGM movie "Neptune's Daughter" which starred Esther Williams and Ricardo Montalbán. Then in 1950, it won the Academy Award for Best Original Song.

Recorded by many artists from Dean Martin to Lady Gaga, the song was placed on some kind of "hit list" but not the kind that celebrates popular music but the kind that seeks to have music banned.

I never saw it neither as a rape anthem nor a as a man coercing a woman into having sex. Too me it was funny and about a man pleading with a woman for her affection. Maybe I'm a naive, but the song was written back in the day when courtship still meant courting—not forcing. I grew up in a couple of decades beyond the song's creation, but I still didn't think it was offensive.

I do think we live in an era when people seem to be looking for offense where none is intended. I think Mr. Loesser and his wife would be shocked that the song they wrote is now banned from the airwaves.

WHAT DO YOU THINK

I'd be interested in hearing what you think about this topic. If you leave a comment, please leave your approximate age because perhaps age has something to do with what is found offensive.

If you'd rather read a romantic comedy than discuss this topic, may I recommend JUST ONE LOOK

Seduction can be pretty funny—especially when both sides play dirty!

What would you do if the gynecologist subbing for your regular doctor turned out to be your old high school crush? Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Monroe does what any normal, well-adjusted woman would do. She makes an excuse, sends the doctor and the nurse from the room, dives into her clothes, and flees—hoping she'll never run into him again.

Unfortunately, her running away makes conscientious Dr. Matt Penrose conclude she has a problem and wants to refer her to another doctor for her exam, but she refuses to take his calls. Dallas is a big city. What are the odds these two will ever meet again? 

Even money, when Fate lends a hand.

JUST ONE LOOK is a Kindle Unlimited free read for subscribers. 

Wishing you a warmer January than probably seems possible at this point!

Love to read? Sign up for my free Newsletter, I LOVE READING. Once a month, you'll receive exclusive content and news about giveaways, bargains, and new releases.

JOAN HANGS OUT AT THESE POPULAR PLACES

SlingWords, Joan's BlogJoan's WebsiteFacebookLinkedIn

Amazon Author PageAudible Author PageBookBub Author Page

Romance Gems Where Authors & Readers Meet