tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1625093777073151860.post5420293070068608996..comments2024-03-26T16:52:31.007-05:00Comments on Smart Girls Read Romance: THE DREADED LOVE SCENEJoan Reeveshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17622809465767116747noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1625093777073151860.post-37512198113413863052015-09-25T14:21:54.742-05:002015-09-25T14:21:54.742-05:00Thank you all for your comments. I never thought t...Thank you all for your comments. I never thought this would be a problem for me.BrendaChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15449189231451496225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1625093777073151860.post-86742140945681326322015-09-24T23:29:58.091-05:002015-09-24T23:29:58.091-05:00I write pretty hot sex scenes. In fact, the last b...I write pretty hot sex scenes. In fact, the last book I released, I labeled it erotica at first, then went back and re-labeled it "steamy." I approach these scenes clinically, as if they're action scenes. On the first pass, in my mind, the important thing is to get the words on the page where that scene is supposed to take place so I can move on with the story and because I need to know how much room they take up in the manuscript. I return to it later to do the emotion and I often delete much of what I wrote steam-of- consciousness. I try to match the emotion I want to convey to the action I've already written. If I can't make it match, I have to delete it. Believe it or not, if a sex scene is too long, it gets to be boring. ..... That's the method that I've developed after much trial and error and it seems to be the easiest for me. I might come up with a new method on the next book. LOL Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11656162839941116457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1625093777073151860.post-13748154145262452042015-09-24T11:47:57.042-05:002015-09-24T11:47:57.042-05:00Yes, what Rain said goes for me too. For me, the ...Yes, what Rain said goes for me too. For me, the sexual tension between the hero and heroine is what makes the love story, not the sex. Study the 12 steps of intimacy by Desmond somebody. You can probably Google it.Caroline Clemmonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14914658854159456335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1625093777073151860.post-3813322925265338542015-09-24T11:29:54.774-05:002015-09-24T11:29:54.774-05:00I like writing the foreplay more than the actual a...I like writing the foreplay more than the actual act. So the eyes meeting, a fleeting touch, flirting words that might or might not mean what their partner thinks, and then the moment they both know where it's going. When it comes to the actual act, I'm not much for reading or writing lengthy descriptions. When it goes on and on and on, it bores. So I like a few paragraphs (at the most) and then pillow talk. Pillow talk can add to the story, and it's fun for me to write. But pages of detail just bore me. So maybe if you concentrate on what got them to that point, you'll find it more fun to write. Anyway, good luck with it. Whichever way we write it, someone will find fault ;)Rain Trueaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994628226501093880noreply@blogger.com